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Nicole Kohanski

Preventing Separation Anxiety


a worried dog who is peeking through a door

Separation anxiety can be a challenging experience for both dogs and their owners. Preventing it before it starts is much easier than addressing it once it's developed. By creating a safe, comfortable environment and fostering confidence in your dog, you can ensure your pup feels secure, even when left alone. Using the principles from Fear Free Happy Homes, here are some actionable tips to help you prevent separation anxiety in your dog.



1. Gradual Alone-Time Training

Dogs are naturally social animals, but they can learn to enjoy alone time with proper training. Start by leaving your dog alone for short periods, even just a few minutes, and gradually increase the duration. Always make these departures and returns low-key to avoid creating excitement or stress.

Pro Tip: Use puzzle toys or food-dispensing toys during these sessions to create a positive association with your absence.


2. Create a Safe Space

A designated area where your dog feels secure can help reduce anxiety. This could be a cozy crate, a gated-off room, or a specific corner with their favorite bed and toys. Make this area a comforting retreat, not a place for punishment.

Fear Free Tip: Include items with your scent, like a worn T-shirt, to provide reassurance while you're away.


3. Practice Calm Departures and Arrivals

Overly enthusiastic greetings and emotional goodbyes can inadvertently reinforce anxiety. Instead, keep interactions calm and casual during transitions.

How to Do It:

  • Ignore your dog for the first few minutes after coming home.

  • Wait until your dog is calm before greeting them.


4. Provide Mental and Physical Stimulation

A tired dog is a happy dog. Ensure your pup gets plenty of exercise, playtime, and mental enrichment before you leave. This reduces the likelihood of pent-up energy turning into undesired behaviors.

Ideas for Enrichment:

  • Go for a brisk walk or play fetch.

  • Rotate interactive toys to keep things interesting.

  • Practice basic training commands or scent games.


5. Introduce Alone Time Early

If you have a new puppy or dog, start building their confidence in being alone right away. Even a few minutes of solo time in a separate room can set the stage for longer durations.

Fear Free Advice: Be consistent with alone-time training, even when you're home all day, so your dog doesn't become overly dependent on your presence.


6. Consider Calming Aids

Fear Free certified veterinarians and trainers often recommend calming aids for dogs who need extra help adjusting to being alone. These might include pheromone diffusers, calming music, or anxiety wraps like the ThunderShirt.

Important Reminder: Always consult your veterinarian before introducing supplements or medications.


7. Recognize Early Signs of Anxiety

Understanding your dog’s body language is key to preventing anxiety from escalating. Signs of stress may include:

  • Pacing

  • Whining or barking

  • Excessive drooling

  • Destructive chewing

If you notice these signs, address them early with professional guidance from a Fear Free certified trainer or behavior consultant.


8. Be Patient and Consistent

Preventing separation anxiety is a gradual process. By maintaining consistency in your routine and providing positive experiences, your dog will learn that being alone isn’t something to fear.

Fear Free Philosophy: Celebrate small victories and stay patient. Building your dog’s confidence takes time and care.

By implementing these strategies, you can foster a happy, confident pup who feels secure in their own company. For more tips on creating a Fear Free home, visit Fear Free Happy Homes or consult a Fear Free certified professional near you.


Your dog deserves a life free of fear, and with a little effort, you can make that happen—whether you’re together or apart.




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